When the great day dawns (the full moon night of July-August), the girl's excitement has to be seen to be believed. On other days they sleep late but on Raksha Bandhan they are up before dawn. After a quick bath, they get into their best clothes. By then their brothers are also bathed and dressed. Then the girls take the rakhi still attached to its strip of cardboard and put it on the top of thali full of sweets. Covering her head with a dupatta, the sister sits in front of her brother, daubs his forehead with vermillion, saffron and rice powder, takes the colourful rakhi and ties it to the wrist. She will then take a piece of some sweetmeat and playfully stuff it in her brother's mouth. He, in turn, as a mark of his affection, places some money on the thali - it may be anything upward of a rupee. Till the girls have tied the chord on their brother's wrists neither will break their fast. All that day, till the evening, the brother will keep the rakhi on their wrist. It is also customary to fry poories and cook vermicelli pudding on this occasion.
When a girl ties a rakhi on her brother's wrist, she makes fervent wishes for his prosperity, happiness and success in all he undertakes. In return, he renews his pledge to guard her honour and self-respect with the last drop of his blood.
On Raksha Bandhan day, Brahmins and priests also tie rakhis round the wrist of their patrons and in return receive offerings from them. In some parts of the country, it is customary to draw figures on the house walls and worship them with offering of vermillion or kheer. The imprints of the palms are also put on either side of the entrance and rakhis are struck on them.
In India the same festival is celebrated in slightly different forms in different areas. This is also true of Raksha Bandhan, which is known by variety of names - Rakhi, Rakhri, Saluno.
Although at Raksha Bandhan there is no display of fireworks, no beating of drums, or decorating of homes with coloured lights, this festival has an importance of its own. The gift of money that brothers give when their sisters tie the rakhi on their wrist may appear trivial at first sight but it means more to the girls than all the wealth of the world. There are many instances in the history when the real worth of these seemingly worthless pieces of string was demonstrated in the field of battle.
The most famous of these incidents is the tale of Maharani Karmvati (or Karunavati). It is said that once Governor Bahadur Shah besieged her kingdom. When Karmvati saw the countless horde led by Bahadur Shah, she lost heart. Then suddenly she thought of Emperor Humayun. She sent him a rakhi. Normally Emperor Humayun would not have gone to the aid of a Hindu Maharani fighting Bahadur Shah.
But so strong was the tradition of rakhi that Emperor Humayun immediately proceeded to Mewar. By the time he got there, however, the Maharani had immolated herself on a funeral pyre. The Emperor was grief-stricken. But he pursued Bahadur Shah, caught up with him, and routed his army. In the annals of the Mughals, there are many instances of Mughal emperor accepting rakhi bands from Hindu women and pledging to respect their honour.
The history of Rajasthan is replete with examples of sacrifices of life made by men to protect the honour of women who had tied rakhis on their wrists. During the freedom movement, many women tied rakhis on the men's wrists and them pledge there lives to the struggle for India's liberation. It was probably for this reason that the great leader of Bengal, Surendranath Banerjee, tried to elevate Raksha Bandhan to the status of a national festival.
Women, who have no brothers or men who have no sisters deserve our sympathy. If God were to ask them for a wish, without doubt, instead of asking for good luck or prosperity, a woman would ask for a brother and a man for a sister.
Raksha Bandhan [Features for kids]
By Prithviraj Monga; Illustrations by Amar Jeet Malik; Published by National Book Trust, India.
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